Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Hello 3rd Trimester!

28 weeks...at most 10 weeks to go! Time continues to fly by. This past weekend I was honored with a great baby shower. It was so special to have my family in town and my close friends around to celebrate the Burchell Babies. As my mom put it...we have everything we need to bring the babies home (now it's just those extra "fun" things we want). We can change them, feed them, and they have a place to sleep. What other essentials are there? I am in complete amazement at how creative my friends and family are! Miss B had the cutest decorations, great games and prizes, and delicious homemade parting gifts. Miss T made the most adorable cupcake display (almost too cute to eat...ALMOST). My sister and her husband used their kitchen skills and made the coolest fruit salad ever. And my mom finally started the curtains which are the perfect touch to the nursery. I'm honored just at the thought of the time and creativity that went into the day. I have no way to express how grateful I am.

Todd was also a sneaky little daddy too. He planned, scheduled, and pre-paid for a salon day for my sister and I where we got manicures, pedicures, hair cuts, and coloring! He had a little bit of a selfish motive - I have been complaining about my "half and half" hair for quite some time and I'm always complaining about my Flinstone feet. But it was a nice surprise, very unlike my Burchie to do that.

I also have hit my emotional peak I think. I was inconsolable when my mom left on Sunday, really just lay in bed most of the day crying and upset. And it's not that I won't see her or that I never talk to her - we talk a lot and she is going to come down to help once the babies are born. I was just a wreck. Once I was able to gain composure, it was time for my sister to leave and the vicious cycle started again. Once I was able to gain composure in the late afternoon, I was going through one of my many daily Cocoa Buttering sessions and saw how intense and how fast the stretch marks were growing and completely lost it for a 3rd time over the weekend. These babies are definitely taking a toll on my body, not that I ever was or had the dream of being a model but I don't think bare midriff will ever be in my future again.

I am starting to get uncomfortable, but as long as I don't think about it, it isn't so bad. Sitting upright all day is tough and driving is really difficult longer than 30 minutes. I'm getting used to the belly - i notice it's a great place to rest my arms, my cups, my laptop, my plate of food...it's pretty convenient! People still tell me I look great and "small for twins"...I'll take that while I can!

Here are some pictures from the shower - I'm happy to report that 28 weeks after IVF we are still strong and healthy and we continue to be thankful for Dr Meyer and his team at USF for their skill and expertise that makes our family more complete in 10 short weeks (if that!!)
Sisters

Cupcakes! Each chair and decoration hand made...

Decorations and cupcake display

Food! Sorry it was Publix "wraps" and not "Subs"

Creation of Stephen and Becky

Cool kids grow up with GloWorms

The Ladies

The cupcake master

The hostess with the mostess

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

26 Weeks Update

To put things in perspective...in 2 short months we should be preparing ourselves for the early arrival of the Burchell Babies! Holy cow that's fast! Luckily (or un-luckily)...work is so incredibly busy that I haven't had time to allow my self to worry anymore about the babies and if "we're ready" or allowing my brain to go baby-crazy anymore. Life NEEDS to slow down and I NEED to soak it all in, but I'll wait for June to really start hunkering down :) I'm thankful for my job and being busy; it's not stressful work per say, just a lot of it.

Updates since the last post - we had 2 visits/sonograms,  went to 2 classes, and took some more pictures. Woo hoo! The frequency of doctors appointments are much more frequent now, we'll be looking at weekly visits starting in mid June. The "due date" is still 8/6, that hasn't changed but after the next measurement sonogram it may change depending on how big these babies are. The doctor said that everything looks great - healthy heartbeats, I look good, I'm carrying them well. No signs of complications.

2 weeks ago we had a measurement sonogram. The appointment started as a regular boring check up but the nurse wanted to get better readings on the heartbeats and check their size. Baby girl was 2 weeks advanced in size - 1 pound 12 oz and baby boy was 1 pound 9 oz. Both of them were at least a week a head in "growth". They were very active. 2 weeks ago I felt bits of kicks, nothing painful or that Todd could feel...it's amazing what changes in 2 weeks! My guess is these babies are a good 2.5 pounds each now.

I feel them all day now, sometimes it's painful kicks, sometimes its just uncomfortable tightening as the babies move around. At today's visit I did the 26-week glucose test to measure for gestational diabetes. If you know me, you know my LOVE for candy and sweets...so hopefully my body is processing sugar just fine since I have a constant flow of sugar in my blood but we'll see in a few days. The test consists of drinking a small bottle of orange drink. I thought it was delicious! It tasted like flat orange soda, or one of those Mr. Freezy pops that isn't frozen. Towards the end of the bottle it started burning as it went down because it was so sweet but nothing intolerable. Since the babies were doped up on sugar, it made the ultrasound fun to watch with the kicking, rolling, and punching! Poor baby boy was getting kicked in the head by his bully sister nonstop! What was particularly cool about this appointment was the stenographer took 3D pictures. My sister said these are creepy, and all I can focus on is how gigantic their heads are! They surely have Todd's cranium and my pouting face.
Baby boy

Baby girl

Last night we also went to another education class - the Infant Safety & CPR class. Overall takeaways from the class...First, essentially everything is a danger! It's going to be impossible to raise these babies in the protective bubbles that are recommended. Second, we know infant CPR now which is scary, but a relief as well. we hope to never need to use it but it's nice to know we're educated. Third, there's a lot cool products out there to make safety easier for the babies. A big plastic protective bubble would be easier, but some cool things out there like faucet protectors, door latches, blinds cord covers, and table ends. Oh yea, and don't feed infants french fries, no matter how mushy and smushy they are. (I learned that the hard way about 6 months ago, but it continues to be a traumatizing memory for me. Sorry Ryleigh!)

We also got a hospital tour, the official nickle tour two Sundays ago. Great information, helpful hints. Turns out Tampa General has 2 Labor rooms that also have a jacuzzi in the private bathroom so you can relax in a hot tub while you're going through early labor. Too bad I probably won't enjoy the beautiful labor and delivery rooms at TGH since I'll be in the operating room. We also confirmed again that we'll have the bigger private rooms, and we are the least picky parents-to-be regarding "needs". There was one couple there that was very open about their displeasure with the size of the post partum rooms...I think they missed that this is a hospital and not a hotel...and I think they were actually hoping to have labor or post partum complications so they get a bigger room. They probably are the couple that still calls an airline flight attendant a "waitress".

A few picture updates as well - I've been hesitant to post pictures because I'm not comfortable with my size but it's a part of pregnancy. I officially feel like I look pregnant now and not just fat which is a good thing, but now the mental and emotional part of growing is getting to me and stretch marks are coming with a vengeance...and sitting is becoming uncomfortable. At the end of the day my tailbone really hurts, and I need to sit and drive "gangsta" style to stretch out my stomach so I'm not squishing.Laying down at night is the best feeling in the world to just stretch out flat...until i decide to go to sleep when I toss and turn. I can't wait to be a stomach sleeper again!

25 Weeks


This is a bit of an exaggeration. I wore a tiny t-shirt to accentuate. On Wisconsin!

 Mom's response was "Oh my". 

26 weeks, going to work. i thought this was a smile...
Pulling off the motherly look, not yet in flippy flops
 Next doctor's appointment is the first week of June; the next few weeks will have a lot of excitement including a baby shower, family visits in town, and our labor & delivery class. Busy weekends to look forward to, makes the long hours at work worth it to know that I'm working for the weekend!